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#6 WHY ARE WE HERE?

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When entering a new situation the rational person will ask themselves: 

“How did I get into this?”.  Being in “I CARE” is one of those cases.  You might respond like this:

 

“I’m here because I’m short on credits.”  

 

“I’m here because of a teacher I hate.”  

 

“Besides “getting out of High School”, what do I want to get out of high school?”

 

”My friends lead me astray having me skip classes”  

 

You fill in: ______________________________________________________________________________

 

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Let’s take this opportunity to enjoy our first OWNERSHIP EXERCISE:

 

Exactly why are you short on credits?  ____________________________________________________

 

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How do we get what we want from a person we don’t respect, or doesn’t appear to respect us?______________________________________________________________________________

 

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How is my future affected by receiving a high school diploma?  ___________________________________

 

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What does a true friend do when they see you failing a class?  ____________________________________

 

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Hint:  In the case of dealing with a true friend’s problem you are either part of the solution or part of the problem.

 

Now question yourself about what you wrote above: 

What is the biggest issue (problem) that stands in your way of getting what you want?

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